If
you had a chance to live a stage of your life
over again, what age would you go back to? Would
you want to be an infant, a college student,
a young adult, a school child? Would any
of you want to live your adolescence over again?
My son Ben is on the verge of becoming a teenager. This past week at church
he had a TWELVE ceremony marking his journey from a child to a teen. The
service focused on Luke 2 and the record of when Jesus was twelve. I started
thinking about the reality of what it must have been like for Jesus to be twelve. It
caused me to develop a deeper sense of appreciation of what Jesus went through
for me.
I'm absolutely convinced that there is nothing Jesus wouldn't do to save me. He
was even being willing to become a teenager! Can you imagine the Creator
of the Universe going through puberty? He chose it. He did it for
you and me. Pimples and hormones and all the changes didn’t sway
His willingness one bit.
As I thought about Jesus at twelve, I knew He could manage those years because
He had everything He needed to know about facing the storms of adolescence in
the Word of God. When it came to his changing relationship with His parents,
He both respected them and challenged them. When Mary and Joseph found
Jesus after a hectic four-day search, Mary began to scold Him. "Son,
why have you treated us like this? Your father and I have been anxiously
searching for you (Luke 2:48). Jesus was quick to answer with a few questions
of His own: "Why were you searching for me?" he asked. "Didn’t
you know I had to be in my Father's house?" (Luke 2:49). The scripture
tells us that He went home with them and was obedient to them. Teenagers
still need the home of their parents even though they are becoming independent
thinkers and are developing self-reliant skills. They aren't ready to leave
the nest quite yet.
What about the hormonal challenges? The world has taken the enlightened
position that all teens are going to have sex anyway, so just give them protection. Jesus
took God's position and understood that although His body and hormones experienced
a maturing preparedness to have sex, it didn’t mean that it was the right
time for sex. His sexual maturity was an opportunity to practice purity
on a new level.
I wonder what peer group Jesus hung around with. We saw in Luke 2 how comfortable
He was around adults. Usually the teens that adults enjoy do not get much
recognition from their peers. Was Jesus lonely during these years? Did
His friends appreciate the way He was always fair and cheered for His friend
to win rather than compete against him?
The scripture doesn't give us a lot of details about Jesus’ life. As
John said there was a lot that Jesus said and did that had to be left out (John
20:30). What the Bible records for us is that Jesus did go through adolescence. He
did it for us. There is nothing Jesus wouldn't do to save us. We
are that precious to Him.